21st Surprise Birthday Party
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Planning a 21st surprise birthday party is a great way to honor a close friend or relative. The 21st birthday is a huge milestone in many young adults' lives, and a surprise party gives this celebration the extra attention it deserves.
Covert Celebration
The most vital factor in planning a surprise birthday party is keeping it a secret. After all, it wouldn't be a surprise if the birthday man or woman found out. A 21st birthday party is even harder to keep a secret, as many celebrants are expecting a birthday bash in their honor.
Secretive Tips
Try following these tips to keep a 21st surprise party a secret:
- Skip emailing an invitation or sending out online invitations. Instead, call every guest and speak to him/her in person. This way, there aren't any emails that are accidentally forwarded or invitation cards left lying in sight of the birthday person.
- Plan a small birthday party, such as a dinner at a restaurant. However, when you get there, have a huge group of people in a rented banquet hall.
- Invite your friend out for drinks or an activity, while others gather at his/her home (or yours).
- Celebrate with a party the weekend before or the weekend after, so the person does not suspect that a surprise party is in the works. If you plan a party with alcohol, make sure it is after the person's birthday, so she can sip the drinks.
The Ruse
The ruse is an especially important part of the 21st surprise party. Choose a ruse that the birthday person is likely to believe. For example, if you invite him to an amusement park for the afternoon while your co-planners are decorating his house, he will know something is up if you typically hate roller coasters and large crowds.
Avoiding the need for a ruse is a great way to keep the surprise party a secret. Instead of inventing a reason to get together, simply use a regular get-together as the actual party. For example, if you normally meet every Friday for girls' night out, or bowl with your brother every Sunday afternoon, use those activities as a cover for the surprise party.
21st Surprise Birthday Party Details
Once you have the major aspects of the party figured out (how to keep it a secret and how to get the birthday person to the actual party), you can focus on the rest of the party details.
Theme
While a surprise party is a theme in and of itself, it might be worth it to have a sub-theme, too. If your friend or relative is attending school, a college party theme is a good choice; just be sure to keep it from becoming a wild college party if coworkers, parents and younger siblings are invited.
A Las Vegas or gambling theme is a great choice for a 21st birthday surprise party. Cocktails and drinks are another choice for a birthday party. Even though it is a surprise party, you can use any creative theme ideas you think the birthday person will enjoy.
Food and Drink
Having a large selection of good party drink recipes is typical at a 21st surprise birthday party. Include beer, wine and a few mixed drinks for everyone to enjoy. If the honored guest is not interested in drinking, consider having a few "mocktails" available.
Buffets with simple party foods are a good choice for the 21st birthday party. Ordering a variety of pizzas or a party sub sandwich are other options perfect for a young adult's birthday party.
Decorations
Choose decorations that coordinate with your 21st birthday party theme. Lots of balloons, confetti and streamers are great for tossing onto the birthday boy/girl as he/she enters the party, too. A large banner with "Surprise" written on it is perfect for placing over the main party area or near the food table.
Keep decorations simple, especially if you plan to do a lot of drinking at the party. Remember to drink responsibly and have designated drivers, too.
Throwing a surprise 21st birthday party is a wonderful way to celebrate a birthday. By making the party a surprise, you add a little something extra that other 21st birthday parties lack.
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